I have been talking to the ex wife lately mostly about paper work, I had to send her some papers and I sent her some pictures of me because she said she was ready to see what I look like now, so she got the pictures on Saturday and today we had to talk about more paper work and when we were done I asked her how do I look? well she did not say anything bad but she did not say anything good either, my hair is too long, I need to cover my arms, too much blue on my eyes so it makes me wonder, do my friends tell what I want to hear because they don't want to hurt my feelings are they telling me the truth, I know I am talking about the ex wife and why should I listen to her but I listen to every body and then I do what I like anyway but I still like to know what people think about how I look, it is the only way I can get better.
Yesterday I went to the swap meet then to breakfast and I walked around and across the London Bridge, I had no problems, did not even notice anybody looking at me so I must be doing something right and I love it and I feel good, that's what matters.
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Susan, I would be glad to tell you exactly what I think about your looks...IF I could see some pics besides your profile pic. You're right, most women would rather be told a lie than the naked truth. I've been given constructive criticism and I usually don't like it or agree with it, at least at first. Usually though, after I think about it, I realize they probably are right.
ReplyDeleteI'll never forget when my expensive new human hair wig arrived. I put it on and my wife took one look and said "I don't like it." Sheesh!...lol. She said you just look like a hippie. Grrrrr. At the same time I could see she was right. Right away I realized I needed to have the wig styled or at least I needed to curl it a little.
So, if you're sure you want constructive criticism, send me some pics...especially close-ups. Hang in there. Hugs, Suzi
Most of the best pictures of me are on facebook, that's the best place to look at them.
ReplyDeleteIf I try to take my own pictures they come out bad so I don't.
Susan
I forgot to say, I never liked the way my wife dressed anyway.
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